M  TMatt Todman
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If Nobody Winces, You're Not Leading

For those of you who've had the pleasure - or displeasure - of sitting in a boardroom where everything is impeccably polite and nothing obvious is ever said out loud, this may feel familiar.

I once made a fairly measured point at one of them. Nothing spicy. Nothing designed to impress. Just something I'd actually thought about.

There was a pause. Someone nodded. Someone else changed the subject.

A while later, two people separately leaned in and said: "That thing you said earlier - I quite liked that."

Which turns out to be exactly how this works.

A few months into writing publicly, I've noticed the same pattern. Plenty of people read. Plenty quietly like it, apparently. Very few feel the need to perform a reaction.

And that's entirely fine by me.

I'm not chasing agreement or applause. I'm here to ruffle a few feathers and soothe a few souls - sometimes at the same time.

If the noise drops as the thinking sharpens, that feels like a fair trade.

Besides, boardrooms taught me long ago that visible enthusiasm is often the least reliable signal in the room.